Abuse in relationships is all too common. Once you are in a committed relationship with someone who is abusive, you will find that it is harder to get out of it than when you are dating. This is because you begin to experience a crisis of self-doubt and low self-esteem the longer you are in the relationship. The best thing to do is to pay attention to signs that you are dating an abusive man and end the relationship as soon as you figure it out. Here are five signs that you are dating an abusive man:
1. He’s possessive. Â He wants you to spend your time exclusively with him. He is jealous of your friends and family and discourages you from being with them. He attempts to pull you away from them by putting them down and putting a wedge between you and them. He texts you constantly and gets upset, if you don’t answer right away. He always wants to know where you are and what you are doing and questions you about it.
2. He’s got a master mentality. Â He talks a lot of submission and the roles husband and wife should have. He talks negatively about women and their abilities and characteristics. He makes statements that reflect his view that women have their “place” and that women want to rule over men. (You may have to listen to subtle cues on this, if he isn’t being completely open yet with his comments.)
3. He’s too serious too fast. Â If he loves you right away, wants to spend all his time with you right away, walks into your life and “takes care of you,” he may be exhibiting controlling behavior rather than caring for you. Be careful, if you are looking for someone to fall in love with and a partner to help you with your responsibilities financially and otherwise, because you may be vulnerable with someone who walks into your life and takes over-too much.
4. He’s got you walking on eggshells. Â If you are already noticing that you are afraid to tell him things because of his reaction, then you are already reacting to the abusive nature, even though it…